In the previous post I spoke of Rosamund Zander’s guidance for individual change. She also dealt with bringing change to families and organizations by recognizing that others, like ourselves are walking stories. As the book progresses she focuses on energy.
She starts with a scientific analogy. Energy becomes amplified, she says, when in proximity to waves of similar tone and length. Visionary people use it that way too – though her she defines energy as commitment to something broader than our personal concerns. And it’s not just about getting one’s own way. We enter relationships of collaboration and become catalysts to create a new story.
The physical world is dynamic – an ecosystem where things connect, react and change. The canopy of trees outside my window is awash with green where weeks ago there were naked limbs. Blossoms will turn to fruit, seeds will scatter, new growth will erupt and old growth with succumb to lightning or disease..
It’s a fractal universe too – in nature and in computer simulations and even in emotions when we share feelings and experiences that cross cultures and times.
When we want to change things, we traditionally develop goals, objectives, strategies and tactics as though we are totally in charge – usually forgetting that there are other forces and energies operating around us – in a playful universe of galaxies.
Zander suggests we try to think of ourselves less as actors and doers and more as conduits that interact with the energies of others – especially in bringing about change. That story is called possibility and it mirrors natural evolution. Humans act and talk. How we do both has a marked effect on the bigger picture. She observes
We reconcile by acts and words; we restore through how we relate and how we grow; we inspire through what we build and the art we make; and we cure ourselves by how we care for others and what we give away. In those ways we bring our hearts into a collective resonance – and that is where the power lies.
Nations have child stories that often need a re-write. As we work on our personal maturing, we change our habits and find new insights and truths that become more like the patterns of nature. Rather than either/or we learn to live with ambiguity. We lessen our need to always be right or to avoid the realities staring at us.
Our caring for the earth needs a rewrite even more. Evolution has always favored invasive species – yet humans are the most invasive of the lot. Urban living divorces us from the natural world. Nature embraces all systems, Zander says, while we have primarily looked after ourselves.
She has several prescriptions – get out and walk in nature, question the child stories that place man at the center as the hero. Stop treating nature as a thing to exploit and re-frame it as an evolving system constantly becoming more complex and beautiful. Take the same stance toward human relationships. “What would be a more compassionate or collaborative way of doing things? Through the practice of what art may I expand my heart?”, she asks. It’s an invitation to join an infinite story.
She closes with what she terms infinite games:
- Take an infinite leap and find someone who has been lost to you
- Get the love you want
- Make a decision in a different way that you normally do – change a habit
- Choose a guiding principle – some examples are wonder, service, courage and authenticity – and commit to making every decision based on it for a day or two.
The entire book is an entertaining reminder that I am not the center of the universe – and at the same time, there are plenty of new possibilities ahead.